We were married 11 years before God gave us our beautiful son. We struggled with infertility and miscarriage. July 12, 1990, was the day we felt God's grace especially deeply -- the day when Teddy came into the world. When I was pregnant with Teddy I said many times, "I want a child exactly like Calvin" (from the comic strip Calvin and Hobbes). Parents who knew better replied, "Oh, NO, you don't!" I got my wish. When Teddy was little he was Calvin in every respect: funny, clever, smart, creative, and just a little warped.